Xcite the Senses

I've read recently there is a science and an art to sex, or making love. In most relationships, couples want to please their partner and oftentimes they feel if the other person doesn't reach an O, or climax, they feel as if they're not satisfying their partner. Or, they aren't doing it right. More often than not, couples need to just slow down and enjoy the prelude, or the foreplay. One way to slow down, and to xcite their partner is to utilize the other senses. If you were to blindfold someone (i.e. your partner), the other senses become more acute or heightened. You and your partner can receive more enjoyment when you incorporate touch, taste, listening and smell.

Use a feather to softly tickle their arms, legs or back in a playful manner. Other soft tickler can include: leather paddles or floggers. Maybe gentle bondage with a silk tie around the wrists.An icecube can also be incorporated, enticing the arousal and anticipation of your next move. Massage candles and edible novelties are popular for a reason. Explore your inhibitions. Melt a massage candle, these can be edible or not, thus enhancing the massage with an invigorating touch from toes to fingertips. After inhaling the arousing aroma, massage your partner and then you decide how you want to remove it. Here you're incorporating all the senses, even blindfolded they can still visualize you. (Another feature could be dress-up, costumes, role-playing, this will be in another blog.)

Everyone's olfactory can be turned on, or off, with different smells. There are thousands of scents available in candles and incense or potpourri to explore together. These aromas can become sensual memories to re-explore and savor.In addition to massage candles, there are oils, with or without pheromones, gels and oral relationship enhancers. (inquire within ;-)) Just like the thousands of candle scents, there are probably hundreds of flavors to enhance couples' relationship and love life; from edible panties (briefs for him) to stimulants, lubes, body cream and candy.Taste can also begin with favorite foods and beverages, before during and after.(We will be elaborating on different types of aphrodisiacs in subsequent blogs.)To help engage your partner more, listening is paramount, as we often give verbal cues. Most often people have favorite songs to evoke different moods. Music to dance to, lyrics to sing a long with, to memorable events associated with songs. Sometimes, just the sounds of nature are all that is needed.

The sound of stiletto heels slowly clicking on the floor have been known to be a turn-on. Some people are aroused by the sound of your voice, telling them what you like or dislike and fantasies and then reciprocating. Communication is paramount in any relationship. It is normal for most people to feel awkward discussing intimacy, however, you should find that once you have openly shared thoughts, concerns and fantasies, you will feel better in many ways and this too should bring you closer, strengthening your bond. Aphrodisiacs and pheromones can only be discovered when you verbally share with your partner. Turning off cell phones, computers and televisions is paramount. Nothing can ruin a moment more than your smart phone bringing you back to the present, sometimes crashing the party. Lighting, music and smells should be given careful consideration when nurturing your relationship. ...To be continued...

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